When a custodial parent refuses to let you see your child, it can leave you feeling frustrated, angry, and powerless. Parenting time is meant to support your relationship with your child—not be used as leverage or withheld unfairly. If you’re being denied visits that were ordered by the court, there are steps you can take. At Cohen Family Law, we can help you protect your rights and keep your connection with your child strong.
Understanding Visitation Rights in Arizona
Once a parenting time order is in place, both parents are legally required to follow it. That means the custodial parent cannot decide to withhold visits just because they disagree with you or have a conflict.
There are only a few exceptions where denying parenting time might be allowed—such as in emergency situations involving immediate danger to the child. Even then, the custodial parent must be ready to explain those actions in court. Arizona law takes parenting time seriously and expects both parents to comply with the terms of the order.
Documenting Missed Visitation
If you’re being denied parenting time, one of the most important things you can do is start documenting what’s happening.
Keep a record that includes:
- Dates and times when visits were denied
- Any text messages, emails, or voicemails where the custodial parent blocks access
- Notes about how your child was affected (missed school events, emotional changes, etc.)
This information may come in handy if you decide to take legal action. It shows a pattern of behavior and supports your side of the story.
Legal Remedies and Enforcement Options
You have the right to ask the court to enforce your parenting time order. In Arizona, this is done by filing a petition under A.R.S. §25-414. The court will review the facts and take action if it finds the custodial parent is in violation.
Depending on the situation, the judge may:
- Order makeup parenting time
- Impose fines or penalties
- Require both parents to attend parenting classes
- Modify the current custody arrangement
- Hold the other parent in contempt of court
The court’s goal is to make sure your child has meaningful time with both parents. Judges usually act quickly when repeated violations are reported.
Emergency Procedures
If you believe your child is in immediate danger, don’t wait. Call law enforcement or child protective services right away. In urgent cases, you may also request an emergency custody order from the court. This type of request is only used in serious situations involving physical harm, abuse, or neglect. It is not meant for ordinary parenting disputes. Still, it’s an essential tool when safety is truly at stake.
Modifying the Custody Order
If the custodial parent keeps denying visitation—even after being warned or penalized by the court—it may be time to ask for a custody modification. Arizona courts always focus on the best interests of the child, and that includes having regular contact with both parents.
When considering a modification, the court will look at:
- How often parenting time has been denied
- Whether the current arrangement still works for the child
- Whether changes would improve stability and consistency
You don’t have to wait forever. If things aren’t improving, we can help you pursue a more workable plan.
Protecting Your Rights Without Escalating Conflict
It can be tempting to fight fire with fire—but don’t. Withholding child support or breaking your own obligations under the court order will only hurt your case. Instead, focus on staying calm and child-centered. Some parents find that using communication apps or neutral drop-off locations helps reduce tension. If needed, involve a third party during handoffs to avoid arguments.
Judges appreciate parents who show patience, maturity, and a willingness to co-parent—even when the other side isn’t doing the same.
How We Can Help
At Cohen Family Law, we help Arizona parents enforce their rights and protect their relationships with their children. Contact us for assistance today. Whether you’re looking to enforce an existing order or request a change, we’ll walk with you every step of the way.
